
Intended Parent Common Questions
Thank you for your interest in becoming an intended parent with Quest Surrogacy. We are dedicated to helping create loving families for LGBTQ+ individuals and couples. As an intended parent, you play a crucial role in realizing these dreams. We understand that you may have many questions about the surrogacy process, requirements, and what to expect.
This FAQ page is designed to provide you with all the information you need, ensuring you feel confident and supported every step of the way. If you have any additional questions or need further assistance, please do not hesitate to reach out to our team. Together, we can create beautiful new beginnings.
Quest Surrogacy FAQ
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Surrogacy is a process where a person (the gestational carrier) carries and delivers a child for another individual or couple (the intended parents). This can be an option for those who are unable to carry a pregnancy themselves due to medical conditions, infertility, or other reasons. The surrogate agrees to undergo the pregnancy and give the baby to the intended parents upon birth, ensuring that the intended parents have full parental rights.
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Working with Quest Surrogacy, you are equipped with an all-LGBTQ+ staff during the surrogacy journey. We can provide a sense of safety, understanding, and empathy that is particularly important for LGBTQ+ intended parents.
Our specialized team brings firsthand knowledge of the unique challenges and experiences faced by LGBTQ+ individuals, ensuring that their needs are met with sensitivity and respect.
Our supportive environment fosters open communication and trust, helping intended parents feel more comfortable and confident. Additionally, our staff's shared experiences and perspectives can lead to more personalized and relevant support.
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A mixed-orientation marriage (MOM) is a relationship where one partner identifies as LGBTQ+ (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, or other non-heterosexual orientations), while the other partner identifies as heterosexual. These partnerships can take various forms, shaped by factors such as sexual orientation, emotional connection, and individual experiences.
We proudly accept gestational carriers who are in mixed-orientation marriages or partnerships, as long as the heterosexual partner identifies as an ally to the LGBTQ+ community.
Our services are designed to cater to the unique needs of diverse families, and we are committed to providing a compassionate and inclusive experience for everyone involved. If you have any specific questions or concerns, feel free to reach out to us—we're here to help!
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At Quest Surrogacy, intended parents can be individuals or couples of any gender identity, sexual orientation, or relationship status. Whether you're a same-sex couple, a single parent-to-be, navigating gender dysphoria, or facing a medical condition that makes pregnancy impossible or unsafe—surrogacy may be a beautiful and affirming path to parenthood.
Our only requirement? That you identify as part of the LGBTQIA+ community.
If you’re unsure whether you qualify or just want to talk things through, we’re here. Reach out anytime at info@questsurrogacy.com.
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Your journey begins with a one-on-one consultation with our team. This is where we get to know you—your hopes, your questions, and what you’re looking for in the surrogacy process. We'll walk you through every step ahead, from confirming you have the necessary genetic material through medical evaluations, to drafting legal agreements that protect everyone involved, to finding a surrogate whose values and expectations align with yours.
This early stage is all about building a strong foundation for a safe, supportive, and successful journey to parenthood.
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Our surrogates undergo an extensive screening process to ensure they are physically and emotionally ready for the surrogacy journey. This process includes comprehensive medical evaluations to assess their health and reproductive history, psychological evaluations to ensure they are mentally prepared for the challenges of surrogacy, background checks for safety and reliability, and personal interviews to understand their motivations and commitment. This rigorous screening process helps ensure that our surrogates are capable and dedicated to carrying a healthy pregnancy.
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Surrogacy costs can vary widely based on factors like medical procedures, legal fees, surrogate compensation, and agency fees. The costs typically include payments for the surrogate's medical care, pregnancy-related expenses, legal agreements, and compensation for the surrogate's time and effort. Additionally, there may be costs for fertility treatments, embryo transfer, and prenatal care.
We provide a detailed estimate tailored to your specific situation during the initial consultation, helping you understand and plan for the financial aspects of the surrogacy journey.
For more information about the costs associated with your journey, explore the link below:
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The surrogacy process typically takes 15-18 months from the initial consultation to the birth of your child. However, the timeline can vary depending on individual circumstances, such as the time it takes to match with a surrogate or the need for genetic material. Each surrogacy journey is unique, and our agency is committed to providing support and guidance throughout each stage to ensure a smooth and timely process.
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We ensure all legal requirements are met with detailed surrogacy agreements that outline the rights and responsibilities of both the surrogate and the intended parents. These agreements help protect all parties involved by clearly defining expectations and procedures for various scenarios, including potential complications. Our vetted and experienced legal team specializes in surrogacy law and will work with you to navigate the legal aspects, ensuring that your parental rights are secured and recognized by the law.
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Matching is based on mutual preferences, values, and expectations. We use a thorough matching process to ensure compatibility between surrogates and intended parents. This includes reviewing profiles, conducting interviews, and facilitating meetings where both parties can ask questions and discuss their hopes and concerns. Both parties have the opportunity to meet and agree before proceeding, ensuring a compatible and supportive relationship. Our goal is to create a positive and collaborative experience for everyone involved.
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Our goal is to help you navigate the emotional and physical aspects of the surrogacy journey with confidence. We provide ongoing communication and updates throughout the process, ensuring you are informed and supported at every stage.
Our team is just an email, call, or text away and available to answer questions, address concerns, and provide resources to help you prepare for parenthood and build a strong relationship with your surrogate. Being a small team, we are equipped to respond and be available to you anytime you need us.
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After the birth, the baby is typically handed over to you, the intended parents, and the bonding begins. Most legal procedures are completed before birth to ensure you can focus on your baby.
Depending on the state you are in, legal procedures are completed to recognize you as the legal parents. We provide post-birth support to ensure a smooth transition, including assistance with the baby's initial care and guidance on legal documentation, such as obtaining a birth certificate.
Our agency remains available to support both the surrogate and the intended parents during this crucial period, ensuring that everyone feels comfortable and prepared for the next steps.
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The level of contact post-birth is decided mutually by the surrogate and the intended parents before the surrogacy process begins and is included in the surrogacy agreement. Some intended parents and surrogates prefer to maintain a connection, while others choose to have minimal or no contact. This agreement is based on the preferences and comfort levels of both parties, ensuring that everyone's wishes are respected. Open and honest communication during the matching process helps establish these expectations and build a positive relationship.

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